The Letter I Couldn’t Have Written

The Letter I Couldn’t Have Written

Twenty-five years with a little scratching and clawing mixed in didn’t keep me from being giddy as I thought about how we would commemorate this milestone. For starters, I would wake up, make my husband coffee, and pour it into the “Silver Anniversary” mug I had stashed. I would say to him,”We did it!,” and […]

Lessons From the Thrift Shop

Lessons From the Thrift Shop

I’ve always gotten excited about a great thrift store…the one-of-a-kind finds and crazy deals that are hiding there, potentially finding the best Christmas gag gift ever for my brother (like a vintage talking Pee Wee Herman doll). The treasure hunt itself is just FUN! I started working at my church’s ministry resale store as a […]

Your Confidence = Their Courage

Your Confidence = Their Courage

A neighbor once loaned me a book about teaching children to have courage.  I took it but didn’t think it was important enough to read at the time, and it ended up dusty on my bookshelf.  I remember thinking, “I’m sure my kids will have plenty of courage” (a little prideful, I guess?).  Fast forward twenty years, I […]

Burn the Ships, Burn the Plow, and Don’t Look Back

Burn the Ships, Burn the Plow, and Don’t Look Back

I will never forget a certain mom who came into my office sixteen years ago when I was a high school counselor.  She came in to tell me her son was angry and frustrated at the changes going on at home.  I tuned in.  She shared that she and the boy’s father had recently become Christians, reconciled their […]